Throwing in the Towel Lyrics - Outsiders

Throwing in the Towel Lyrics

Ponyboy, Darrel, Sodapop

Throwing in the Towel

[DARREL]
Soda, I'm really a mess
Every night I worry myself to sleep
While you're watching cartoons
There ain't nothing I can do for you
I know that Ponyboy's really got a damn good heart
Something 'bout him that really could take him far
But I keep holding him down
I've run this family right into the ground
Maybe you'd be best without me
I don't know what else to say
I lost our brother and I lost my way
I think a fool could'a done better
Maybe I've been afraid to say
That I'm just not cut out for this
Just another failure on a growing list
And it's harder now than ever
It's more than I can take
There ain't no one to bail me out
There ain't no saving this now
I think I'm throwing in the towel

[SODAPOP]
On the days when you feel like you're torn in two
Making dinner, paying bills that are overdue
Think that I don't see?
It'd go to hell if it was left up to me
And I don't know what we would do if you were not around
The one to keep the ship afloat when its going down
Darrel, I need you
And anyone can see that Pony does too
I know you love him
That's all you gotta do
And I don't know what else to say
I know you feel like you've lost your way
But I think you're doing better
Better than you know

[DARREL]
If he comes back, there’s a price to pay
What if they lock our brother away?

[SODAPOP]
There ain’t no way of knowin’
We've gotta get our brother home

[DARREL, SODAPOP, & PONYBOY]
This is the darkest hour of the darkest night
Looking up ahead, you can't see no light
But the time is now or never
There ain't no letting go

[SODAPOP]
You might feel like you’re givin’ out
We need you more than ever now
Don't go throwing in the towel
I know your head is full of doubt
But brother, that's what love is all about
Don't go throwing in the towel

[DARREL, SODAPOP, & PONYBOY]
When you love someone that's all that you can do
There ain't no throwing in the towel


Song Overview

 Screenshot from Throwing in the Towel lyrics video by Brent Comer
Brent Comer is singing the 'Throwing in the Towel' lyrics in the music video.

One late-night listen was all it took—I found myself pacing the kitchen muttering the Throwing in the Towel chorus like a half-remembered prayer. Brent Comer, backed by Jason Schmidt and Brody Grant, has somehow bottled the ache of brotherhood, Broadway-size stakes, and that tight-rope walk between survival and surrender. It’s track 12 on The Outsiders – A New Musical cast album (May 22 2024), yet it plays like the emotional epicenter—the point where hearts crack open and let the light leak in.

Song Credits

  • Featured: Jason Schmidt, Brody Grant
  • Producers: Jamestown Revival, Justin Levine
  • Composers?/?Lyricists: Jamestown Revival, Justin Levine
  • Release Date: May 22, 2024
  • Album: The Outsiders – A New Musical (Original Broadway Cast Recording)
  • Genre: Folk-rock Broadway Pop
  • Label: Masterworks Broadway / Sony Music Entertainment
  • Mood: Desperate yet defiant
  • Track #: 12 • Length: ?3:50
  • Language: English
  • Copyright © 2024 Masterworks Broadway?–?Sony Music Entertainment

Song Meaning and Annotations

Brent Comer performing song Throwing in the Towel
Performance in the music video.

The song rides on a dusky folk-rock strum—steel-string guitars, a heartbeat kick drum, and harmonies that feel as frayed as a torn denim jacket. It opens with Darrel’s confession: the older brother wrestling guilt after Ponyboy’s disappearance. Sodapop counters with gentle realism, and the trio finally fuses into a storm-lantern refrain: “There ain’t no throwing in the towel.” You can almost smell Tulsa rain on hot asphalt.

Structurally, it mirrors a boxing round—verse jabs, chorus hooks, then a climactic all-in swing where every brother enters the ring. The emotional arc flickers from defeat to fragile hope, echoing S.E. Hinton’s original novel yet layering contemporary Americana harmonies reminiscent of Mumford-meets-Springsteen.

Verse 1 (Darrel)

In ‘Runs in the Family (Reprise)’, Darry threatens Soda and Pony by saying he’d be better off without them. Now that Pony is gone, Darry is now saying that Pony and Soda would be better off without him. Darry feels like a failure, as a brother, and as a guardian.
Soda, I'm really a mess… I lost our brother and I lost my way …

Darrel’s verses drip regret. He frames himself as “just another failure,” a working-class Atlas crushed by overdue bills and survivor’s guilt. Darrel’s anger in Runs in the Family (Reprise) led to Ponyboy running away, so Darrel blames himself for everything that has happened.

Verse 2 (Sodapop)

On the days when you feel like you're torn in two…

Sodapop flips the narrative. Instead of hero worship, he offers practical admiration—crediting Darrel for “keeping the ship afloat.” This re-balances the Curtis hierarchy: love over labor, presence over perfection. Soda knows how hard carry works so he knows that if darry died or left then nothing would get done and they would be a lot worse off.

Bridge / Trio

This is the darkest hour of the darkest night…

The three-part harmony evokes church revival—no fancy salvation, just brothers fusing fear into resolve. Musically, the chord progression lifts a whole step on “darkest night,” mimicking the candles flaring brighter.

Chorus

Don't go throwing in the towel…

That boxing metaphor—quitting mid-fight—is re-purposed as a vow: family gloves stay on, even when knuckles bleed.

Creation history: Jamestown Revival (Texas folk duo Jonathan Clay & Zach Chance) collaborated with Broadway polymath Justin Levine, chasing a “dust-and-diesel” soundscape to match Hinton’s 1967 Tulsa. Early demos were reportedly more acoustic; Levine layered subtle B-3 organ and brushed snare to expand the horizon without drowning the intimacy.

Symbols: Towels, ships, and boxing rings converge on resilience. The repeated line “That’s what love is all about” re-frames toughness as tenderness—masculine care in a mid-century world allergic to vulnerability.

Similar Songs

Thumbnail from Throwing in the Towel lyric video by Brent Comer
A screenshot from the 'Throwing in the Towel' music video.
  1. “No Surrender” – Bruce Springsteen
    Both tracks pin youthful idealism against adult disillusionment. Springsteen’s bar-band thunder mirrors Throwing in the Towel’s folk-rock drive, and each chorus weaponizes camaraderie—“no retreat, baby, no surrender” could slip seamlessly after “there ain’t no letting go.”
  2. “Brother” – NEEDTOBREATHE feat. Gavin DeGraw
    Southern-flecked harmonies and a rescue-the-lost theme align perfectly. Where “Brother” promises “hold my hand,” Comer’s trio pledges “we need you more than ever now.” Both songs let gospel-style backing vocals bloom into catharsis.
  3. “Wait for It” – Leslie Odom Jr. (from Hamilton)
    Another Broadway confessional steeped in layered self-doubt. Darrel’s “I’m not cut out for this” parallels Aaron Burr’s existential hum. Musically, each piece uses dynamic swells—quiet verses, explosive hooks—to dramatize inner conflict.

Questions and Answers

Scene from Throwing in the Towel track by Brent Comer
Visual effects scene from 'Throwing in the Towel'.
Who actually sings “Throwing in the Towel” on the recording?
Brent Comer (Darrel), Jason Schmidt (Sodapop), and Brody Grant (Ponyboy) share lead vocals, mirroring their on-stage roles.
Is the track a literal boxing reference?
The boxing phrase functions metaphorically—quitting the fight equals abandoning family. No gloves appear in the show, but the image of hurling a towel at the ring ropes underscores desperation.
Why place this song so late in the musical?
Act II demands a pit-stop before the final sprint. By airing doubts here, the writers raise emotional stakes, making the subsequent “Stay Gold” resolution feel earned.
Did Jamestown Revival change their folk style for Broadway?
They expanded it. Acoustic roots remain, but electric slide guitar, drum crescendos, and choral harmonies give the song theatrical lift.
Has “Throwing in the Towel” charted independently?
The cast album hit #3 on Billboard’s Cast Albums chart; individual digital sales pushed the track into iTunes Top 40 showtunes in June 2024.

Awards and Chart Positions

  • The Outsiders won 4 Tony Awards (2025): Best Musical, Best Lighting Design, Best Sound Design, and Best Direction.
  • The show earned 12 total Tony nominations, including Best Original Score—recognizing Throwing in the Towel as part of the score package.
  • The cast album debuted at #3 on the Billboard Cast Albums chart (June 2024).

Fan and Media Reactions

“Brent Comer’s baritone cracked me open—had to hug my brother afterward.” @StageDoorKid, YouTube comment
“That key change on ‘darkest night’ felt like sunrise. Goosebumps, every listen.” Megan Alvarez, BroadwayWorld forum
“Honest, working-class poetry. Springsteen would be proud.” Ryan Cho, theatre blogger
“Goose & Maverick vibes—but with Greaser grit. Obsessed.” @VinylVixen, TikTok
“I played the track for my dad—he grew up in Tulsa. He cried.” Marcus Lee, Instagram story

Critics echoed the sentiment: Variety praised the number’s “heart-land twang meets Broadway roar,” while The New York Times singled out Comer’s “weather-beaten warmth, rare in modern musicals.”



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