Mama, I'm A Big Girl Now Lyrics
Marissa Jaret Winokur, Laura Bell Bundy, Kerry Butler & CastMama, I'm A Big Girl Now
PRUDYDon't contradict me!
VELMA
Don't disobey me!
EDNA
Don't even think about going to
that audition.
TRACY, PENNY & AMBER
Please!
MOMS
No!
3 GIRLS
Mother!!!!
MOMS
Stop!
PENNY
Stop telling me what to do
MOMS
Don't!
AMBER
Don't treat me like a child of two
MOMS
No!
TRACY
I know that you want what's best
MOMS
Please!
TRACY
But mother, please,
GIRLS
Give it a rest!!!
ALL
Stop! Don't! No! Please!
Stop! Don't! No! Please!
Stop! Don't! No! Please!
Mama. I'm a big girl now!
TRACY
Once upon a time when i was just a kid
You never let me do iust what the older kids did
But lose that laundry list of what you won't allow
GIRLS
'Cause mama, i'm a big girl now
AMBER
Once upon a time i used to play with toys
But now i'd rather play around with teenage boys
So, if i get a hickey, please don't have a cow
GIRLS
'Cause mama, i'm a big girl now
PENNY
Ma, i gotta tell you that without a doubt
I get my best dancing lessons from you
You're the one who taught me how to "twist and shout"
Because you shout non-stop
And you're so twisted too!
Wo -oh -oh -oh -oh
TRACY
Once i used to fidget
'Cause i just sat home
AMBER
But now i'm just like gidget
And i gotta get to rome!
PENNY
So say, arrivederci!
TRACY
Toodle-loo!
AMBER
And ciao!
GIRLS
'Cause mama, i'm a big girl now
ALL
Stop! Don't! No! Please!
Stop! Don't! No! Please!
Stop! Don't! No! Please!
GIRLS
Mama, i'm a big girl now
(hey mama, say mama)
TRACY
Once upon a time i was a shy young thing
Could barely walk and talk so much as dance and sing
But let me hit that stage, i wanna take my bow
GIRLS
'Cause mama, i'm a big girl now
AMBER
Wo - oh - oh - oh - oh
Once upon a time i used to dress up 'ken'
But now that i'm a woman, i like bigger men
And i don't need a barbie doll to show me how
GIRLS
'Cause mama, i'm a big girl now
GIRLS
Ma, you always taught me
What was right from wrong
And now i iust wanna give it a try
Mama, i've been in the nest for far too long
So please give a push and mama watch me fly
AMBER
Watch me fly
GIRLS
Hey, mama, say mama
PENNY
Someday i will meet a man
You won't condemn
AMBER
And we will have some kids
And you can torture them
TRACY
But let me be a star
Before i take that vow
GIRLS
'Cause mama, i'm a big girl now
PENNY
Oh - Oh - Oh
GIRLS
Mama, i'm a big girl now
AMBER
Hey - Hey - Hey
GIRLS
Mama, i'm a big girl
AMBER
Ooh, such a big, big girl!
GIRLS
I'm a big girl now
ALL
Stop! Don't! No! Please!
Stop! Don't! No! Please!
Stop! Don't! N01 please!
GIRLS
Mama, i'm a big girl now!!!
Song Overview

“Mama, I’m a Big Girl Now” first rang out from Broadway’s Neil Simon Theatre on August 15, 2002, tucked into the third slot of Hairspray’s cast album and running a tidy 3 minutes 18 seconds. What began as a spunky ensemble piece soon escaped the proscenium: it plays over the closing credits of the 2007 film (with Nikki Blonsky, Ricki Lake and Marissa Jaret Winokur trading the melody) and later tore across NBC’s Hairspray Live! in 2016.
Personal Review

I’ve covered theatre songs for five decades, yet few mother-daughter sparring matches pop like this one. The track marries Brill-Building bounce to television-variety brass; a wall of saxes and trumpets pushes every “Stop! Don’t! No!” into Technicolor. It is comedy and coming-of-age crammed into one three-minute sound-bite—an AM radio single masquerading as show tune. The lyrics let each girl snatch adulthood from the older generation’s grip, and the music answers with modulations that feel like someone kicking down the door.
Song Meaning and Annotations

Shaiman and Wittman write like they’ve raided Phil Spector’s closet—girl-group stomp, handclaps, and a bass line that walks with teenage confidence. The dramatic engine is simple: Tracy, Penny and Amber each demand room to grow while their mothers (Edna, Prudy, Velma) slam on the brakes. The call-and-response (“Stop! Don’t! No! — Please!”) is a percussive tug-of-war. Listen for how the horns punch every maternal objection; it’s as if the orchestra itself sides with the kids.
The text smuggles sly jokes. Amber’s “I used to dress up Ken / But now I like bigger men” winks at Mattel’s 1959 launch of Barbie—only three years before the show’s 1962 setting, a neat anachronism fans still debate. Penny’s crack about her mom being “so twisted too” doubles as both twist-dance pun and psychological jab. One song, six households worth of therapy bills.
Musically, Harold Wheeler’s 15-piece orchestration flashes flugelhorn warmth against sharp reed doubles—two keyboards, twin guitars, a four-piece brass line, reeds, strings, rhythm section. The groove stays in classic 12/8 shuffle, but the kids push the tempo ever so slightly, symbolising impatience.
“Stop telling me what to do / Don’t treat me like a child of two.”
The line telescopes every teenager’s grievance: not merely restriction, but the indignity of being mis-measured.
“Ma, you always taught me what was right from wrong / and now I just wanna give it a try.”
The callback to parental moral lessons flips the script—values become launchpad, not leash.
Verse Highlights
Verse 1
A domestic flashback—“Once upon a time when I was just a kid”—sets stakes. Shaiman accents each beat with tambourine, cartooning the memory.
Chorus
The title hook lands on the song’s highest note, a B?5 belt for Tracy in the Broadway key, mirroring her leap toward adulthood.
Bridge
The girls slip into mock-Italian (“Arrivederci… Ciao!”), lampooning travel-poster freedom. Harmonically the bridge pivots to the IV maj7, a bright new colour before crashing back home.
Song Credits

- Featured Vocalists: Marissa Jaret Winokur, Laura Bell Bundy, Kerry Butler & Original Broadway Company
- Producer: Marc Shaiman
- Composer & Lyricist: Marc Shaiman, Scott Wittman
- Orchestrator: Harold Wheeler (Drama Desk winner, 2003)
- Release Date: September 8, 2002
- Genre: Broadway pop / 60s girl-group pastiche
- Instruments: 2 keyboards, 2 guitars, electric bass, drums, percussion, 2 trumpets/flugelhorn, trombone, 2 woodwind doublers, 2 violins, cello
- Label: Sony Classical / Masterworks Broadway
- Mood: Brassy, rebellious, comedic
- Length: 3:18
- Track #: 3 on Hairspray OBCR
- Language: English
- Poetic Meter: Mixed trochaic-anapestic
- Copyrights ©: 2002 Universal-Songs of PolyGram Int. Inc.
Songs Exploring Themes of Growing Up
While “Mama, I’m a Big Girl Now” puts teenage rebellion in a pastel-coloured Beehive, Helen Reddy’s “I Am Woman” (1972) turns the same impulse into an adult feminist roar—slower groove, gospel backing, but the leap from private doubt to public declaration feels cousin-close.
Meanwhile “Defying Gravity” from Wicked blows the coming-of-age door off its hinges. Where Hairspray leans on brass snaps, Schwartz writes soaring strings; still, Elphaba’s “You can’t pull me down” echoes Tracy’s plea: stop measuring me by yesterday.
In contrast, Rodgers & Hammerstein’s “Sixteen Going on Seventeen” frames growth through courtship advice. Liesl’s timid waltz shows how 1950s culture choreographed female adolescence—precisely the corset Shaiman & Wittman laugh at forty years later.
Questions and Answers
- Who sings which mother-daughter pair in the Broadway version?
- Tracy/Edna (Winokur & Fierstein), Penny/Prudy (Butler & Jackie Hoffman), Amber/Velma (Bundy & Linda Hart).
- Why was the number cut from the 2007 film’s plot?
- Director Adam Shankman trimmed early exposition for pacing; the song re-appears over the credits as an Easter egg for fans.
- Did the cast album win any major awards?
- Yes—Best Musical Show Album at the 45th Grammy Awards, 2003.
- How high did the 2007 soundtrack chart?
- It rocketed to No. 2 on the Billboard 200 and later earned RIAA Gold status.
- Is the orchestration rentable for school productions?
- Concord Theatricals licenses Hairspray JR. with a reduced orchestration or digital tracks, making it playable even for seven-piece pits.
Awards and Chart Positions
The Broadway cast album’s Grammy victory in 2003 placed Shaiman and Wittman alongside giants like Sondheim. Its parent musical swept eight Tonys the same season, while Wheeler snagged the Drama Desk for orchestration. Five years later the film soundtrack debuted at No. 20, then leaped to No. 4 and ultimately hit No. 2 on the Billboard 200, topping the Soundtracks chart and selling half-a-million copies for Gold.
How to Sing?
Range hovers between F3 and D?5; belters should anchor breath low and aim resonance into the mask for the rapid-fire “Stop! Don’t! No!” tongue twisters. Keep consonants crisp—those stops are rhythmic—and ride the backbeat: a slight bounce on every second eighth-note sells the 60s snap. Tempo averages 132 BPM, but live performances often edge upward; practice with a metronome at 125, then 135 to build stamina. Quick tip: during the bridge, reset diaphragmatic support because the final chorus repeats three times without an instrumental break.
Fan and Media Reactions
“After eons of waiting, Hairspray Live! finally aired tonight and it was full of all the energetic choreography, power belting, and pony’ing we dreamed of.”—Teen Vogue
“The production itself feels poorly-chosen for our times…there was little to grab onto for anyone flipping through channels.”—Daniel D’Addario, TIME
“The soundtrack shot up to No. 4 on the Billboard 200, nearly doubling its first-week sales.”—Playbill
“TikTok clips of Edna’s closing ad-libs pulled 300 k likes in days; Gen Z has officially adopted the Turnblad sass.”—@hairsprayobsessed
“Seeing three split-screens of mothers losing their minds was slick—but almost too slick for live TV.”—Teen Vogue