Take Me Or Leave Me Lyrics – Rent
Take Me Or Leave Me Lyrics
Every single day,
I walk down the street
I hear people say 'baby so sweet'
Ever since puberty,
Everybody stares at me
Boys, girls, I can't help it baby
so be kind, and don't lose your mind
just remember that I'm your baby
take me for what I am
who I was meant to be
and if you give a damn
take me baby,
or leave me
take me or leave me
MAUREEN:
a tiger in a cage
can never see the sun
this diva needs her stage
baby,lets have fun.
you are the one I choose
folks would kill to fill your shoes
you love the lime light too, now baby,
so be mine and don't waste my time cryin'
'honey bear are you still my, my, my baby?'
take me for what I am
who I was meant to be
and if you give a damn
take me baby or leave me
no way, can I be what I'm not
but hey, don't you want your girl hot?
oh, don't fight, don't lose your head
'cause every night who's in your bed?
who?
who's in your bed?
spoken: kiss pookie
JOANNE:
it won't work
I look before I leap
I love margins and discipline
I make list in my sleep baby
whats my sin?
never quit
I follow through
I hate mess but I love you
what do with my improptu baby?
so be wise 'cause this girl satisfies
you got a prize but don't compomise
your one lucky baby
JOANNE: take me for what I am
MAUREEN: a control freak
JOANNE: who I was meant to be
MAUREEN: a snob yet over attentive
JOANNE: and if you give a damn
MAUREEN: a loveable droll geek
JOANNE: take me baby or leave me
MAUREEN: an anal retentave
BOTH: thats it
JOANNE: the straw that breaks my back
BOTH: i quit
JOANNE: unless you take it back
BOTH:Women
MAUREEN:What is it about them?
BOTH: can't live with them or without them
chorus:
BOTH: take me for what i am
JOANNE: who i was meant to be
MAUREEN: who i was meant to be
and if you give a damn
JOANNE: and if you give a damn then
take me baby, or leave me
MAUREEN:take me baby, take me or leave me
BOTH: take me baby or leave me
BOTH: spoken: guess i'm leaving, i'm gone!
[Thanks to Cassie for corrections]
Song Overview

Song Credits
- Primary Artists: Fredi Walker (Joanne) & Idina Menzel (Maureen)
- Composer & Lyricist: Jonathan Larson
- Producer (cast album): Arif Mardin
- Album: Rent (Original Broadway Cast Recording) – Track 30
- Release Date (album): 1996 • Digital single re-release: September 23 2005
- Genre: Broadway pop-rock duet
- Instrumentation: Funky electric guitar riff, slap-bass pops, rock-kit backbeat, Hammond organ stabs
- Label: DreamWorks SKG / Theatrical Rights Worldwide
- Length: 3 min 05 sec (cast album)
- Language: English
- Mood: Flirty, combative, whip-smart
- Copyright © 1996 Finster & Lucia Music Ltd. / Rent Musical LLC
Song Meaning and Annotations

I still remember the first time those opening guitar chops hit me—felt like someone flicked on a neon sign that read Relationship Reality Show, Live. “Take Me or Leave Me” is the East Village’s sass-infused prenup: Maureen flaunts swagger, Joanne fires back with spreadsheets, and the band keeps the referee whistle handy.
Jonathan Larson frames the skirmish as a dueling résumés monologue. Maureen rattles off diva credentials—a tiger in a cage, spotlight addict, professional flirt—while Joanne counters with bullet-point discipline—color-coded margins, night-time to-do lists, tidy soul. The kicker? They want the same thing: unconditional yes. The [song title] never begs; it dares.
Musically, the duet clicks into a blues-rock shuffle that bounces like a rubber ball off brick walls. Notice the quick-fire internal rhymes (be kind / don’t lose your mind) and the playful call-and-response that lets both vocalists riff over each other without ever tangling—a choreographic marvel when staged. The final cannon blast—“Guess I’m leaving, I’m gone”—hits on a suspended chord, literally refusing harmonic closure until the next scene.
Maureen’s Opening Volley
“Every single day I walk down the street / I hear people say, ‘Baby, so sweet’”
Self-branding 101: lead with social proof. Menzel’s belt turns sidewalk catcalls into an empowerment chant.
Joanne’s Counter-Manifesto
“I love margins and discipline / I make lists in my sleep”
The lyric flips traditional tropes—order is sexy, spontaneity needs a leash. Walker?s crisp mezzo jabs each consonant like a ticking metronome.
Relationship Thesis
“Take me for what I am / Who I was meant to be”
A credo that slots neatly into any era’s self-acceptance playlist. No makeover montages, no compromise coupons—just sign here or step aside.
Similar Songs

- “Anything You Can Do” — Annie Get Your Gun
Irving Berlin’s battle-of-the-sexes anthem walks so Maureen & Joanne can strut. Swap rifles for protest flyers and you get the same competitive spark, just with 90s rock polish. - “Use What You Got” — The Life
Both songs celebrate unapologetic self-marketing on a seedy city backdrop; funky guitar chops and belt-heavy lines seal the kinship. - “Take Me Or Leave Me” — Glee Cast cover
The high-school hallway rendition introduced the duet to a fresh cohort—cleaner vowels, same zero-compromise attitude.
Questions and Answers

- Is the duet vocally challenging?
- Yes—Menzel’s Maureen hovers in high belt territory (up to D?5) while Walker’s Joanne flips between mezzo warmth and gospel riffing. Breath control is non-negotiable.
- Why no harmony until the final chorus?
- Larson keeps the voices mostly separate to underscore their clashing agendas; when they finally lock in two-part harmony, it’s both resolution and stalemate.
- How does the scene advance the plot?
- It exposes the core incompatibility that later pushes Joanne to near-break and Maureen to unexpected introspection—without it, their Act II reconciliation rings hollow.
- Any notable ad-libs in live productions?
- Absolutely—Idina often tags an extra high riff on “leave me,” and touring Joannes sprinkle comedic side-eyes after the “anal-retentive” jab.
- Did Larson model the quarrel on real couples?
- Friends say he borrowed traits from downtown performance-artist circles, but the friction between artist impulse and lawyer logic is a near-universal roommate tale.
Fan and Media Reactions
This [song title] has become the compulsory duet for every karaoke night where friendships teeter between hugs and side-eye. TikTok duos film closet-door jump cuts to nail the he-said-she-said timing. Critics praised Menzel and Walker’s comic timing, calling it “Broadway’s sassiest lovers’ quarrel since Adelaide met Nathan.” Meanwhile, LGBTQ+ audiences claim it as a rare mainstream musical shout-out that lets queer women own both the spotlight and the punchlines.
“The vocal equivalent of a spice-rack explosion—delicious and deadly.” — Time Out NY
“Fails every ‘healthy communication’ workshop, wins every shower-concert.” — @TherapyMajor
“My roommate and I settle chores with this duet—vacuum duty goes to the loser.” — @FlatMateFiasco
“Proof you can belt a legal brief and still look fierce.” — BroadwayWorld forum comment
“Twenty-five years on and the line ‘a tiger in a cage can never see the sun’ still scratches.” — NPR Pop Culture Happy Hour
Music video
Rent Lyrics: Song List
- Act 1
- Tune Up 1
- Voice Mail 1
- Tune Up 2
- Rent
- You Okay Honey?
- Tune Up 3
- One Song Glory
- Light My Candle
- Voice Mail 2
- Today 4 U
- You'll See
- Tango: Maureen
- Life Support
- Out Tonight
- Another Day
- Will I?
- On The Street
- Santa Fe
- I'll Cover You
- We're Okay
- Christmas Bells
- Over The Moon
- La Vie Boheme
- I Should Tell You
- La Vie Boheme B
- Act 2
- Seasons Of Love
- Happy New Year
- Voice Mail 3
- Happy New Year B
- Take Me Or Leave Me
- Seasons Of Love B
- Without You
- Voice Mail 4
- Contact
- I'll Cover You (Reprise)
- Halloween
- Goodbye Love
- What You Own
- Voice Mail 5
- Finale A
- Your Eyes
- Finale B