For the Gaze Lyrics – Death Becomes Her
For the Gaze Lyrics
[MADELINE]
Why is a girl like me
Sitting here in this chair, combing her hair
And painting her face in the chase
To stay young and beautiful?
Is it the fact that I'm attracted
To each kernel of external validation
In a world that keeps me insecure
To sell me needless crap?
Or is it something new?
Would you believe it to be true
That I'd do it all for you?
For that glimmer in your eye?
For your gaze?
I'd trade my fortune for the chance to be
Enveloped in that special way you glance at me
I feel like I can have it all the moment that I fall into that gaze
The look of recognition in your eyes
Is all it takes to have me hooked and hypnotized
It's the feeling of pure ecstasy to be seen the way that I see me
Yes, everything I do is for the gaze
I'll do an outfit change, I'll do a twirl
I'll do just about anything to be your girl
I'll cause a scene to make you stare
I'll take the trip from here to there
While serving Cleopatra on a chaise
I'll give you choreo and legs for days
I'll go one step beyond and give you grunge a taste
I'll be your tiny dancing queen
Your Judy, Gaga, Cher, Céline
I'll option up on certain matine-yeah-es
But only for the gaze!
[ENSEMBLE, MADELINE, spoken]
Ooh, she won't go quietly
Or be ignored (It's true!)
Be careful if you push her, she'll go overboard (Splish-splash)
With every move we love her more
We love her 'cause she does it for the gays
[MADELINE]
I'm just a twenty-something ingenue
Babbling before you, begging for your praise
Please love me, give me the gaze, the gays love me
I need the gaze, the gays love me
The gays love me, the gays love me
[ENSEMBLE]
Oh-oh-oh-oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh
Ooh, ah, ooh-ah, ah-ah-ah-ah
Ooh-ah, ah-ah-ah-ah
[MADELINE and ENSEMBLE]
Oh, it's the greatest gift, the greatest love
The greatest love to get to be a member of
[MADELINE, ENSEMBLE]
'Cause if you ask me when push comes to shove
It's for the gaze (It's for the gays, it's for the gays, it's for the gays)
Forgive me if I'm coming on too strong
I just want to be loved and feel like I belong
That's why I wear this little gown and sing this little song
It's for the gaze (It's for the gays, it's for the gays)
I'd do anything for (She'd do anything for)
We all know that this whole damn show is for
The gaze (All for the gays, the gays)
Anything for the gaze! (Gays)
Why is a girl like me
Sitting here in this chair, combing her hair
And painting her face in the chase
To stay young and beautiful?
Is it the fact that I'm attracted
To each kernel of external validation
In a world that keeps me insecure
To sell me needless crap?
Or is it something new?
Would you believe it to be true
That I'd do it all for you?
For that glimmer in your eye?
For your gaze?
I'd trade my fortune for the chance to be
Enveloped in that special way you glance at me
I feel like I can have it all the moment that I fall into that gaze
The look of recognition in your eyes
Is all it takes to have me hooked and hypnotized
It's the feeling of pure ecstasy to be seen the way that I see me
Yes, everything I do is for the gaze
I'll do an outfit change, I'll do a twirl
I'll do just about anything to be your girl
I'll cause a scene to make you stare
I'll take the trip from here to there
While serving Cleopatra on a chaise
I'll give you choreo and legs for days
I'll go one step beyond and give you grunge a taste
I'll be your tiny dancing queen
Your Judy, Gaga, Cher, Céline
I'll option up on certain matine-yeah-es
But only for the gaze!
[ENSEMBLE, MADELINE, spoken]
Ooh, she won't go quietly
Or be ignored (It's true!)
Be careful if you push her, she'll go overboard (Splish-splash)
With every move we love her more
We love her 'cause she does it for the gays
[MADELINE]
I'm just a twenty-something ingenue
Babbling before you, begging for your praise
Please love me, give me the gaze, the gays love me
I need the gaze, the gays love me
The gays love me, the gays love me
[ENSEMBLE]
Oh-oh-oh-oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh
Ooh, ah, ooh-ah, ah-ah-ah-ah
Ooh-ah, ah-ah-ah-ah
[MADELINE and ENSEMBLE]
Oh, it's the greatest gift, the greatest love
The greatest love to get to be a member of
[MADELINE, ENSEMBLE]
'Cause if you ask me when push comes to shove
It's for the gaze (It's for the gays, it's for the gays, it's for the gays)
Forgive me if I'm coming on too strong
I just want to be loved and feel like I belong
That's why I wear this little gown and sing this little song
It's for the gaze (It's for the gays, it's for the gays)
I'd do anything for (She'd do anything for)
We all know that this whole damn show is for
The gaze (All for the gays, the gays)
Anything for the gaze! (Gays)
Exploring the Meaning and Impact of "For The Gaze" by Megan Hilty and the 'Death Becomes Her' Original Broadway Cast

Song Credits:
- Featuring Artist(s): Megan Hilty
- Producer(s): Julia Mattison, Noel Carey, Scott M. Riesett, Sean Patrick Flahaven
- Composer: Julia Mattison, Noel Carey
- Writer: Julia Mattison, Noel Carey
- Release Date: November 21, 2024
- Label: Concord Theatricals Recordings
- Musical Genre: Musical Theatre, Pop
- Album: Death Becomes Her - Broadway Sneak Preview
- Language(s): English
Song Meaning

Songs Sharing Similar Themes

- "Born This Way" by Lady Gaga: This anthem celebrates self-acceptance and individuality, resonating with LGBTQ+ audiences. Its upbeat tempo and empowering lyrics mirror the celebratory tone of "For The Gaze." Gaga's unabashed embrace of queer culture aligns with the themes presented in Hilty's performance.
- "I Will Survive" by Gloria Gaynor: Initially a disco hit about personal strength after a breakup, it evolved into a gay anthem symbolizing resilience and empowerment. The song's journey from mainstream to queer iconography parallels the camp transformation celebrated in "For The Gaze."
- "Vogue" by Madonna: This track brought underground ballroom culture, predominantly comprising LGBTQ+ people of color, into the mainstream. Its celebration of self-expression and fashion as a form of art aligns with the performative aspects highlighted in "For The Gaze."
Questions and Answers
- What is the significance of the wordplay in the title "For The Gaze"?
- The title cleverly plays on the words 'gaze' and 'gays,' highlighting the song's exploration of seeking attention while paying tribute to the LGBTQ+ community that has embraced the 'Death Becomes Her' narrative as a camp classic.
- How does "For The Gaze" reflect the themes of the original 'Death Becomes Her' film?
- The song encapsulates the film's exploration of vanity, the pursuit of eternal youth, and the lengths individuals go to for admiration, all while acknowledging and celebrating the story's significance within queer culture.
- Why does Madeline reference icons like Judy Garland, Lady Gaga, Cher, and Céline Dion in the song?
- By mentioning these legendary performers, all beloved by the LGBTQ+ community, Madeline aligns herself with a lineage of iconic figures, emphasizing her desire for acceptance and adoration from queer audiences.

Awards and Chart Positions
As of now, "For The Gaze" from the musical *Death Becomes Her* has not been released as a standalone single; therefore, it has not appeared on mainstream music charts. However, the song has garnered critical acclaim within the theater community. Megan Hilty's performance as Madeline Ashton has been widely praised, with some critics speculating potential nominations for theater awards in the upcoming season. While specific awards for "For The Gaze" are yet to be announced, Megan Hilty has a history of recognized performances. She received nominations for Lead Actress in a Musical at the Drama Desk Awards, Outer Critics Circle Awards, and Drama League Awards for her role as Doralee Rhodes in Broadway's "9 to 5: The Musical.". Additionally, she was nominated for a Tony Award for Best Featured Actress in a Play for her portrayal of Brooke Ashton in "Noises Off." As the musical *Death Becomes Her* continues its run, there is anticipation that "For The Gaze" and Hilty's performance may receive nominations and accolades in the future.Fan and Media Reactions
"For The Gaze" from the musical Death Becomes Her has received widespread acclaim from both audiences and critics. Many highlight its witty lyrics, dazzling choreography, and Megan Hilty's brilliant performance as Madeline Ashton. Fans particularly appreciate the clever wordplay in the title and its deep connection to LGBTQ+ culture, which adds layers of humor and cultural significance to the number. Critics have also praised the production. In a review on Visit NYC, the musical is described as "a hilariously fabulous new musical comedy about friendship, love, and burying the hatchet… over and over and over again." The song "For The Gaze" is singled out as one of the standout numbers, celebrating the queer legacy of Death Becomes Her.Music video
Death Becomes Her Lyrics: Song List
- ACT I
- If You Want Perfection
- For the Gaze
- That Was Then, This is Now
- Tell Me, Ernest
- Madeline Ashton's Intimate Wedding Extravaganza
- Madeline
- Till Death
- Tell Me, Ernest (Reprise)
- Falling Apart
- Siempre Viva
- Let's Run Away Together
- Confrontation
- ACT II
- Entr'Acte
- Don't Say I Didn't (Warn You)
- Hit Me
- The Plan
- Stefan's Turn
- Live to Serve
- Siempre Viva (Reprise)
- The Chase
- Till Death (Reprise)
- Alive Forever
- This Is Not the End
- CHICAGO RUN
- Prelude
- The Vows
- (I See) Me!
- Madeline's Lament
- Disrespect Me (The Stairs)
- Let's Run Away Together (Reprise)
- Ernest Menville
- Goodbye Forever
- Gone (The Procession)
- That Was Then, This is Now (Reprise II)
- Finale